Some afternoon thoughts…

Some of my loved ones seem to be struggling with their personal relationships. They desperately need for approvals so they hop on any trains that want to pick them up (even when the train is dirty or intend to drop them off quicky). When I see these things happened, there’s nothing I could do. When they fall, I always hope they will learn their lessons. But somehow, they continued to hop on the next dirty train. I want them to know so badly that they should love themselves. It’s not worth wasting time on dirty trains and their self-worth is so precious. They should not compromise. What’s wrong with waiting?

Facebook used to be a very nice place for me to hangout. I got connected with my long lost friends. Lately, I stopped frequent Facebook. I just don’t like it when people post negative things. Some people can be VERY negative…I’m sure you all have friends like that. It’s the same thing as newspapers. I’ve stopped reading them since I took up Law of Attraction. Some say that you can choose to read and ignore these things. Personally, I’m a person who can be affected quite easily. Some said I’m not strong enough and they can do better than me. I won’t want to mess with their ego but the way I see it, sometimes you may not realise how much your circumstances affect you. It’s like the test where you say the word “milk” ten times. After that, when people ask you “What does cow drink?”, you may answer “Milk” and it’s wrong. Why is it that only few percentage of people pass this test while the majority fails? Anyway, I wish there could be a “Positive postings only” checkbox on the Facebook settings.

I learnt about Delibrate Creation in the last few days from the book I am reading. In brief, it is the process of creating what we want in life thru Law of Attraction processes. I think I’m becoming more spiritual these days. Not in terms of religions as I am not of religious person. But rather I am more aware of what’s going on in my life. I have a better sense and able to think things more thoroughly and clearly. I tend not to follow my impulse reactions. Instead, I’ll withhold them and re-evaluate the reasons for the need to react a certain way. If it’s a negative one, I’ll divert my attention to another thing. I’m still learning. Once in a while, I’ll still let one or two ‘uncontrollable’ reactions escape.

I also learnt to be more neutral. I won’t blatantly follow or listen to what other people condemn/criticize/blame and etc. Instead, I like to re-evaluate the matter from different POVs and try to understand why some people behave like they do, especially when it comes to political matters. Also, I will find ways to convince myself that what this person does have no effects on me and will not contribute to less joy in me. This may sound selfish, but I live for myself. The most I can do to contribute to the society is to give more love and that should be enough. People must realize by themselves that their happiness is entirely up to them. We all have choices. If you don’t like something, change your circumstances.

The Abraham-Hicks book meantioned that there are different levels of emotions. In an excerpt, they mentioned that a person who is in Depression will move up their emotional level by feeling Anger. Often times, when depressed people show their Anger, they received too much disapprovals from their family/friends because their family/friends are not aware that this is just a temporary relief phase. And so, they moved back to Depression stage. And this goes on and on and the person seems to always be stuck between the two emotions. This lesson actually reminded me of the past (just a few years back). I’ve seen how myself and my friends tried to move out from depression. We/They never seem to be angry at the people who caused all this. By the time they do, they have recovered. Wish I know this knowledge earlier and save everyone’s time. Oh well, never too late for anything!

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A Uni friend of mind (who was also my ex housemate for less than a year) had been to my shop a few times but I haven’t been able to meet him due to wrong timing. Yesterday, when he called me up for a drink, I made it a point to reserve my time for him. I remember the old days when this friend of mine used to “lock” himself in his room playing hours and hours of computer games. Today, the person who spoke to me isn’t that person I used to know. He’s totally changed and had succeeded much more. I’m very happy from him. Within the short 1 hour meeting or so, I’ve learnt so much from him. He gave me a lot of ideas which can help me in my new career and my business. Time to put on some thinking caps.

I’ve been finding myself having less time to blog these days. Tired. Good night!

Thank you, Universe!

This week had been a really busy week. I have no complaints, though. Why? I’ll you why. I’ve closed my first sale in the new career I took up!! But wait… don’t be too happy yet. It’s not only one sale but TWO! Wahahahaha. Happiness. I’m really beginning to enjoy the rewards from this new part-time career. I have clients coming to me voluntarily either to help them or to help their friends. It’s a great feeling to be able to contribute by doing what I like the most. No rest for the weekend yet. I’m taking care of my shop as I’m writing this blog entry. Tomorrow is Sunday and I only get a half-day rest. I have a meeting with another prospect at night. Money is pouring in while I’m doing what I love. Thank you, Universe!

Another highlight for this week -> we’ve identified another possible part-time business to go into. He’s working very hard to research on this new thing. It’s his specialty. I see a lot of opportunities in this. Today I called an ex colleague of mine (also my MM friend) and I found out that he left rat race few weeks ago. I’m so happy for him! Also, I am not sure if I’ve mentioned this but my dear friend Pei San left rat race last month too! Couldn’t be happier for them. Enjoy the freedom, folks!

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Things are looking up. I think the lessons I’ve received from Abraham-Hicks really brought me back up again. I feel so lucky to have friends who are approachable and constantly remind me what life is really all about. Thank you, Universe!

In Abraham-Hicks words, I learnt the normal Law of Attraction things that I’ve already known. In addition to that, the new thing I’ve learnt so far is to let my emotions be the guide. Just like how a sculptor will use their hands to mould their art into the shape they want, we should listen to our emotions and let it be the guide to mould the energies towards what we want. We should be alert of how we feel at all times. If you have negative feelings, try to acknowledge that and then divert your thoughts to something that will bring back the happy emotions.

I have many more audio tracks to listen. Will share with you more as I go along. Everyday, I try to be positive and just let things go. I think he has caught up with my energies and also work towards more improvements. I’m happy to have a soon-to-be husband who is so understanding and flexible. The fact that he’ll listen to me and reflect on himself makes him different from all the guys I’ve ever dated. He’s here just to accompany me while I take care of my shop for long hours. I’m smiling while I write this. Thank you, Universe!

My darling is not feeling well… Here’s a little something to cheer him up. The happy kitty song from The Big Bang Theory. Man… I am so addicted to this TV show. Gotta finish Season 3 and I’ll be done for a while. Tsk tsk. I wonder why this series never got to Malaysia. The jokes are really clever and refreshing. Sheldon is funny!





oh by the way, the funniest episode I’ve watched so far was when Leonard’s mum visited them. I was tearing when I laughed yesterday night. Hahaha. Gotta love them nerds. There’s no embedded allowed so go watch it here….


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHROHQNjMXE


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I’m gaining a lot of new perspectives by listening to Jerry and Esther Hicks audios on many of their Law of Attraction books. I’ve been listening to them when I drive these days. Thank you for the audios, sis.

Yesterday, I attended my high school friend’s wedding dinner with XCool. This friend of mine is one of the most successful friend I have from high school. He started “building his empire” even before leaving school. Now, his company Macro Kiosk Berhad is expanding. Very happy for him.

The wedding was nicely planned with heavy decoration details, good food, nice entertainment and etc. It was also sort of a high school reunion. I met a lot of my ex school mates, whom I haven’t seen since Form 5! Feels kind of awkward but awesome. Some are married, some with kids, some put on weight, some lost a lot of weight and so on.

Just thought I should log this.

Some very interesting things have been happening. Much as I want to log it here so badly, I won’t. It’s P&C. However, something was running in mind while I watched my staff close the shop today.

When I started this blog, my intention was to become a Money Magnet (I still am btw). At that time, I was placing all my focus and priorities on making money. It is as though that became the purpose of my life. While doing so, I realised more and more that money really ain’t that important after all. Sure, I won’t argue. Money is important to survive and live a comfortable life. But that’s about it. Maybe I should change my nickname… nah. It’s okay.

I learnt that there are many other things in life that are more important. Biggest one of all is love. Romantic love, friend’s love, family’s love, love for animals, love for your passion. Get the idea? Love, love, love. Nothing but Love. I truly love the people around me and I know that love is the best gift I can receive from them. I choose Love. Thank you all.

Well, I think I’m one step closer to finding my life purpose. Love is definitely one of them.

I’m sorry if I might stop writing about money making journey materials. I just think that it’s better for me to keep them P&C. Sorry. I’ll probably log some not so P&C stories and my happiness when I make achievements in that department but you may not know what it’s all about.

(Disclaimer: what I’m going to thank Universe now may not make any sense to you…. haha)

Dear Universe,

Thank you, Universe!

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By the way, I’m going to change my property investment plan. Time for me to multiply. I’m eyeing two potential areas and waiting for the right deals to come along. Property investment is so rewarding when you do your homework properly. I love this game a lot. Property investment will be part of the source of my wealth. Thank you, Universe!

Two days ago, I had a minor hiccup for my shop. It was Raya holiday and my santan supplier told us at the very last minute that he cannot supply santan for a few good days. (I’ve sacked him for unreliability). I had to source for santan last minute and went to this shop in Klang. While waiting for the uncle to prepare my santan, I walked to the next door shop selling chinese praying props. Guess what was displayed on the counter? The chinese almanac!!!

Yes!! The chinese almanac for 2011 is out! Yay! I quickly bought one copy and called my feng shui consultant to meet up. Universe has a way to make things happen and I think this was meant to be. Since my feng shui consultant wasn’t able to find the book herself, she said i’m the first person she’ll be picking 2011 dates for. Took her a long time to pick a nice date for us. The date she picked was an ideal date for wedding because it has a lot of good stars. She showed us all the chinese-worded explanations in the almanac and I agreed with her. It’s going to be awe …….. (wait for it) ….. some!!!

So …. friends, the date is set! More information later The feng shui consultant also told us that there’s this new hotel offering good rates if we sign up with them early. XCool and I went to check out the place yesterday and felt very excited. The extra money we saved could be used for other things to make the wedding more awesome. Or, we could spend more for our house. Happy! We’ve been scouting for venues even before the date was set and I was feeling a little upset because our budget allows a restaurant if I want my type of deco (or a hotel but with standard deco). But now, I can have it all – hotel venue and awesome deco! Thank you, Universe!

Another wedding gift/blessing from Universe (first being the house at good price). I’m grateful for that. Please continue to guide me into finding all the things I want for my wedding, house and career. I feel alive and strong. Thank you again, Universe!!!

Plenty of time to plan my wedding. For now, I will focus on my career and looking forward to close a few big sales deal this month starting from this Friday. Thank you, Universe!!!

For those of you who know me long enough, you will know that I was a forex trader about one 1/2 years ago. I love it, actually. The thrill of growing money by applying your trading knowledge and getting in touch with financial news. The fun of discussing all your trading activities with your buddies and also blogging about it. Despite all this, I stopped trading.

So, you might ask me this question – what happened?

Well …. since I started my new business, I haven’t got the right emotions to trade. I didn’t have the luxury of time to do so during the first few months. After putting it aside for months, I find that I’ve lost confidence in trading and also didn’t have the time to pick it up.

Will I continue to trade?

Yes. I might take it up again when I have more free time and less emotional. These days, it seems that I’m constantly riding on an emotion roller coaster. Not that it’s a bad thing, just that it’s bad for trading. My sifu, Koon Lip, always preached that we have to control our emotions when trading. For me, after many trials and errors, I realised that I tend to make silly mistakes (exiting a position too soon, increasing stop loss unappropriately) when I get impatient. My impatience comes from my emotions. When I make silly trading mistakes, I get more emotional. It’s a cycle. I’m waiting for the right time to enter the market again.

Meanwhile, I still keep in touch with my trading buddies and I am happy to know that some of them have improved their skills. I’m not going to lie. Some of them have stopped trading too. Trading requires a trader who is in the right mind. Otherwise, it feels a lot like gambling.

A few of my friends have changed brokers and recommended me to do so too. The latest preferred broker is Admiral Markets. Check it out by clicking the logo below.





I have USD50 live accounts to giveaway to 5 pax. Please let me know if you are interested. Hurry! First come first serve only.

Lately, I have been relying on feel-good movies/shows to pick myself up. It helps me to maintain the positive and happy momentum. My brother has recently graduated from UK and he came back for good. With him, he brought back TV comedy series. There are awesome. Whenever I feel stressed out, I’ll just play one and laugh at it.

Here are my two favorite characters from the two series I’ve been watching …





‘Barney Stinson’ from ‘How I Met Your Mother’ explaining the relation between a chick’s hotness and craziness.





‘Dr. Sheldon Cooper’ from ‘The Big Bang Theory’ wearing the t-shirt I fancy most probably explaining some intellectual (geeky) physics theory of his.


Not forgetting the really funny video of Robin Scherbatsky a.k.a. Robin Sparkles’ teen popstar MTV. Hahaha….funny.





Okay. I’m hooked….. I have a few more seasons to go and then I’ll stop. Just really need something to make me remember not to take life too seriously. ^^

Had a good night sleep and woke up energetic today. I’ve been running around like…. (Second thoughts coming). Okay. Enough about all the things that have been happening. I’m just happy that I can put all this in the past.

….. (went out to run some errands)

Okay. I’m back. Today is a happy day. Here’s a song that makes me want to dance whenever I hear it. It’s a pretty old song, I know.

Busy day ahead. No more time to spare for blogging. Have a nice day, folks!