These days I am resting. After Chinese New Year, I will start working hard smart again. So, I will write less money related topics.

Today’s topic is about cheaters. I had a long chat with a friend the other day who was still hung up on her failed relationship. She loved the man so much but he ended up cheating on her big time. Until now, she is still holding on grudges and didn’t like the feeling of being discounted. Having experiencing this myself, I can’t help but to wonder about a lot of things.

For me, it is acceptable if my partner falls in love with another and tells me honestly. I would let him go and deal with myself. I mean, nobody is indispensable. There is nobody I can’t live without. Think about it. We’ve survived so many years without a partner. We can survive again. Yes, there will be heartaches but this is for the better. I believe I am smart enough to learn how to survive. Do you think life will be great if you’re constantly forcing someone to love you?

But what really pisses me off is when a person falls out of love and lies about it. (This applies to both man and woman) Why do they have to cough out some excuses to conceal the actual reason? It really makes one appear shallow. Then again, to see a person stooping to that level sure helps the getting over process to escalate. At the end of the day, all is no lost.

If a person cheated before, will he/she cheat again? I’ve seen many cases whereby the answer is yes. I guess people do change and we may want to hope that they have. I prefer not to take chances. After all, it is my lifetime happiness we’re talking about. A person who cheated before is a turnoff to me and I probably would never be able to trust the person completely. This applies to my friends too. If a friend of mine is a cheater, I will be more reserved when I deal with him/her.

Anyway, my eyes are getting smaller now. So tired. Not going to bother with grammar/spell checking this post. Let me tell you what is as tough as being a sick patient….taking care of a sick patient.

Good night now…. zzz.zz….zzzz

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